Transition worksheets that honor the messy middle.
Ten worksheets for the major life transitions — divorce, retirement, career change, moves, midlife, launching into adulthood, empty nest. Grounded in William Bridges' transition model. Free, printable, client-facing.
Transition Map (Bridges)
Ending, neutral zone, new beginning
Locate yourself in Bridges' three phases and honor the messy middle instead of rushing out.
Divorce Recovery Worksheet
Grief without a body
Hold the compound loss, name what's mine to rebuild, decide what not to decide yet.
Retirement Identity Worksheet
Design the days, not just the years
Replace what work gave you beyond income — structure, purpose, identity, community, challenge.
Career Change Worksheet
Values-driven, not impulse-driven
Name what's not working, non-negotiables vs nice-to-haves, and a 90-day exploration plan before quitting.
Geographic Move Adjustment Worksheet
Six months minimum
Rebuild anchors — walking route, weekly place, community, back-home contact — and plan for loneliness.
Empty Nest Solo Worksheet
Design the chapter deliberately
Single-parent empty nest: hold the quiet, reintroduce interests, redesign the parent–adult child relationship.
Midlife Review Worksheet
Reckoning, not rupture
Deliberate audit of what to keep, set down, do that hasn't been done, and admit you actually want.
Launching into Adulthood Worksheet
Emerging adulthood as a real stage
Locate yourself on separation, identity, work, love, worldview; small next moves; parent relationship redesign.
Purpose Reconstruction Worksheet
Drafts, not vows
Draft a purpose sentence from what has meant most, what's wanted, and who you want to be in service to.
Transition Support Plan
Not a solo sport
Support inventory, professional supports, and the weekly rhythms you're protecting through the change.
Transition Decision Map
What to decide now, what to protect from pressure
Sort decisions by time horizon, name the values that run through each, and edit the consultation list.
Identity Inventory Through a Transition
What you're setting down, keeping, and building
A three-column audit of the identity you had before, what stays, and what to build in the next chapter.
Values Recalibration
Which values are actually yours
Sort inherited from carried from quiet-but-real, and translate each into what it looks like in an ordinary week.
Ambiguous Loss Map
Grief without a body, held honestly
Name what's gone, what's changed, what you haven't let yourself grieve, and a private ritual to mark it.
Goodbye / Hello Ritual Design
Design a threshold the mind will cross
Draft a small, deliberate ritual to close what's ending and open what's next.
Frequently asked questions
Are these for grief too?+
Transitions and grief overlap. If a client's primary work is bereavement, start with the Grief section. These transition worksheets are best for non-death losses — divorce, career shifts, moves, retirement.
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