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Retirement Identity Worksheet

Design the days, not just the years

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Retirement is a bigger identity shift than most people plan for. Work provided structure, purpose, status, and community. All four need re-designing, not just leisure filling.

What work was giving me — beyond income
  • Structure (time, routine)
  • Purpose (something to do that mattered)
  • Identity (who I was to strangers)
  • Community (colleagues, clients)
  • Cognitive challenge
Replacements for each
What work gave me
How I'll replace it
What I want retirement to be for

Design the days, not just the years

Retirement without daily and weekly structure often becomes low-grade depression. Design the week.

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