Grief & bereavement worksheets

Grief worksheets and a grief journal that hold the loss without hurrying it.

Free grief and bereavement worksheets plus a printable four-week grief journal, drawing on Worden's four tasks, Stroebe & Schut's dual process model, Klass/Silverman/Nickman on continuing bonds, Neimeyer's meaning reconstruction, Pauline Boss on ambiguous loss, and DSM-5-TR prolonged grief disorder criteria. Free, printable, client-facing.

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Worden's Four Tasks of Grieving

Grief as work, not stages

Locate which of Worden's four tasks — accepting reality, processing pain, adjusting, enduring connection — is loudest right now.

Bereavement intake; grief that feels stuck; anniversary reactions.
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Meaning
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Continuing Bonds Worksheet

Relationship with the deceased, in a new form

Inventory existing bonds with the person who died and design one new bond to build deliberately.

Post-'let-them-go' grief models; long-term grief; identity work with the deceased.
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Skills
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Dual Process Model Worksheet

Oscillate between loss and restoration

Track loss-oriented and restoration-oriented moments and rebalance the over-weighted side.

Grief stuck in pain or stuck in avoidance; caregivers post-loss.
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Meaning
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Meaning Reconstruction Worksheet

Re-author your life story after loss

Neimeyer's meaning reconstruction: name the assumptive world disrupted by loss and begin a livable next story.

Loss that shattered assumptions; identity-level grief; sudden or traumatic loss.
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Assessment
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Prolonged Grief Disorder Screen

DSM-5-TR symptom checklist

Symptom-by-symptom screen for prolonged grief disorder — indication for specialized grief-focused treatment.

Grief past 12 months (6 in kids); functional impairment; specialty referral decisions.
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Meaning
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Ambiguous Loss Worksheet

Loss without closure — dementia, addiction, estrangement

Pauline Boss's ambiguous loss framework — build both/and language for the loss that won't finish.

Dementia caregivers; family estrangement; missing persons; addiction; chronic illness.
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Logging
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Grief Waves Log

Track waves so they stop feeling like ambushes

Two weeks of wave tracking to surface triggers, times of day, and what actually helps.

Early bereavement; grief that comes without warning; anniversary approach.
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Expression
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Letter to the Deceased

The oldest grief intervention we have

Structured letter to the person who died — what needs saying, what you imagine them saying back.

Unfinished business; ambivalent relationships; long-standing grief.
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Skills
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Anniversary Reaction Plan

Mark it deliberately or it marks you

Plan the day — ritual, company, soft landing — before the anniversary lands.

Approaching death dates, birthdays, holidays; seasonal anniversary reactions.
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Support
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Grief Support Inventory

Who to ask for what — specifically

Map who's available, what they're best at, and the specific asks that actually get met.

Post-loss loneliness; friends going quiet; extended grief.
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Narrative
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Grief Timeline Map

Before, around, after — the shape of the loss

Map the ordinary time, the anticipation, the loss itself, and the first weeks — a container for the story.

Grief therapy; anniversary reactions; delayed or complicated grief.
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Letter
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Continuing Bonds Letter

Not letting go — a new kind of relationship

A structured letter that names what's kept, what's missed, and how to stay in relationship with the person going forward.

Post-loss integration; anniversary; grief group homework.
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Anticipatory
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Anticipatory Grief Worksheet

Real grief, not premature grief

Names the loss-in-progress, the guilt around feeling it now, and what's still possible while there's time.

Terminal diagnoses; dementia caregiving; hospice families.
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Letter
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Grief Forgiveness Letter

Set some of it down, keep what matters

Work one specific instance of unfinished business — to them, or to yourself — with a closing ritual.

Complicated grief; grief with rupture; addiction and family loss.
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Assessment
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Secondary Losses Inventory

One death, many losses

Roles, routines, practical, future, community, identity — why grief feels bigger than one person.

Any bereavement; widowhood; loss of a child, sibling, or best friend.
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Continuing Bonds
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Grief Legacy List Worksheet

Not letting go — naming what you carry of them, forever

A letter-format worksheet from the continuing-bonds tradition. Names what the client wants the person to know about their life now, what they carry of them, something never said, and one ritual to keep the bond alive.

Long-standing grief, anniversary reactions, grief groups, complicated bereavement; particularly useful past the six-month mark.
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Relationships
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Breakup Grief Stages Worksheet

Rotation, not stages

Tracks which grief state is present after a breakup — ache, anger, bargaining, numbness, relief, fear — what each pulls the client toward, a contact plan for the week, and seven days of basic daily anchors.

First weeks and months after a breakup or divorce; clients who read a bad week as going backwards.
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Caregiving
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Anticipatory Grief Worksheet for Caregivers

Grieving someone still here

Names what has already been lost while caring for someone with dementia or terminal illness, the mixed feelings that come with it, and a weekly care-and-grief log.

Dementia, terminal illness or long decline; caregiver guilt or relief; ambiguous loss.
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Grief
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Grief Journal Prompts

16 prompts over four weeks

A printable four-week grief journal: telling the story, remembering the person, naming guilt, anger and relief, and continuing the bond, with space to write under every prompt.

After a death or major loss; between grief sessions; clients who process better in writing; anniversaries and hard dates.
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What are grief worksheets?

Grief worksheets are structured, printable exercises that help a grieving person put a loss into words — telling the story of the death, naming guilt, anger or relief, planning for hard dates, and finding a continuing bond with the person who died. They are tools to use alongside support, not a timetable for how grief should go.

Grief journal prompts

A grief journal is a private place to write to, about, or around a loss. Our free Grief Journal Prompts printable gives 16 prompts over four weeks: telling the story, remembering the person, naming the hard feelings, and continuing the bond. Writing for 10–15 minutes, a few times a week, is enough. If writing leaves someone more flooded each time, stop and bring it to a session instead.

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Where to start

In the first weeks: the grief waves log, support inventory and journal prompts. Once acute grief has settled: Worden's four tasks, the letter to the deceased, meaning reconstruction and continuing bonds. Around anniversaries: the anniversary plan. If grief stays intense and impairing beyond a year, the prolonged grief screen helps decide whether specialist treatment is needed.

Frequently asked questions

What should I write in a grief journal?+

Start with the story of the loss, then memories of the person, what you miss, what you wish you had said, and what feels hardest now. The Grief Journal Prompts printable gives 16 prompts in a four-week order so you never face a blank page.

Are these grief worksheets free?+

Yes. Every grief worksheet and the grief journal are free to print. Clinicians can also send them to clients as a secure fillable link.

Can grief journaling make grief worse?+

It can feel worse briefly — that is normal. If writing repeatedly leaves you more overwhelmed, take a break and talk it through with a counselor. If you are thinking about ending your life, call or text 988 in the US, or your local emergency number.

Do these replace grief-focused therapy?+

No — they support it. For prolonged grief disorder specifically, grief-focused treatments (CGT, PGDT) have the strongest evidence and these worksheets are best used inside that treatment.

Are they appropriate for early grief?+

Yes — the waves log, support inventory, and anniversary plan are helpful in the first months. The letter, meaning reconstruction, and continuing bonds sheets are usually more useful once acute grief has settled.

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