Imposter feelings hit hardest when the client is doing well — the higher the visible success, the louder the "they'll find out". This worksheet separates felt fraudulence from actual competence, updates the internal scoreboard, and rewrites the rule that generates the imposter feeling.
The situation where the imposter feeling shows up most
How much of a fraud I feel (0–100)
The internal rule underneath ('a real ___ would ___')
Evidence I use to feel like a fraud (what I discount, what I attribute to luck)
Evidence a colleague would use to say I earned this
What I attribute my wins to (luck, timing, someone else) vs my losses (me)
Rewrite the rule: replace 'a real ___ would ___' with something a mentor would sign
One thing I will let myself take credit for this week — out loud, to someone