DBT's overlap between emotion mind and reasonable mind
Wise Mind is DBT's name for the overlap of emotion mind and reasonable mind — the small oval where both agree. This worksheet takes one decision and runs it through all three.
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Wise Mind is DBT's name for the overlap of Emotion Mind and Reasonable Mind — the small oval where feeling and reason agree. The worksheet takes one live decision and runs it through all three lenses. Emotion Mind: what the emotion wants, in its own words. Reasonable Mind: what the logic and evidence say. Wise Mind: what both would agree on if they slowed down long enough to talk. Plus a section for how the client will recognize Wise Mind in real time (body, tone, breath) — Wise Mind is a felt state, not a conclusion. The point is not to suppress Emotion Mind. It is to make room for both, so the decision the client makes is one they can defend to themselves a week later.
If the client writes the reasonable version of the emotion, Emotion Mind was skipped — start again.
It is the pole. Wise Mind is not Reasonable Mind — it is the overlap.
Most clients recognize Wise Mind as a settled feeling in the chest or a slower exhale. Naming their signal makes it findable next time.
The worksheet loses power if used on 'my life in general'. Specific decisions, specific overlap.
That's usually a sign that the emotion has information Reasonable Mind hasn't taken seriously yet. Slow down; re-listen to Emotion Mind.
Related but not identical. Intuition can come from either Emotion Mind or Wise Mind; the diagnostic is whether the felt-sense is settled or urgent.
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Open the toolWorksheet — Wise Mind Worksheet — provided by TherapistAssist for clinical use. Not a substitute for assessment or treatment.