Sex Therapy · Assessment
Sexual Genogram
Messages you inherited about sex
The messages you inherited about sex — from family of origin, faith community, first partners, media — sit under adult behavior long after you stopped believing them. Name the messages, then decide which stay.
Family of origin — what was communicated about sex
Spoken messages (what was said out loud)
Unspoken messages (what silence / avoidance taught you)
What was modeled about affection, bodies, or privacy
Faith / cultural community messages
First sexual experiences — what got wired in
Audit
Message
Still true for adult me?
Keep / revise / retire
Inherited scripts are not consented values
You didn't pick the messages. You do get to pick what stays.