Between-session tools for the couples you actually see.
Relationship check-ins, repair-attempt logs, negative-cycle trackers and the Four Horsemen — sendable to both partners' phones.
Couples work lives or dies between sessions. The fight on Wednesday gets reinterpreted by Friday; the repair attempt nobody noticed becomes the missed turn-toward that defines the week. Without a shared, low-friction way to capture what happened in real time, you spend half the next session reconstructing it.
TherapistAssist gives couples therapists between-session instruments built for two people. A shared relationship check-in. A Four Horsemen tracker. A negative-cycle map both partners can add to. The data lands in your dashboard before they walk in together.
Where the work breaks down
- Couples arrive disagreeing on what even happened mid-week
- Repair attempts go unnoticed and uncredited
- There's no system for tracking the negative cycle across weeks
- Generic mood trackers don't capture the relational dynamic
Built for couples therapists.
Each tool is sendable to your client's phone in one tap. Their response comes back to you before the next session.
Relationship check-in
A short daily relational check-in both partners fill out. You see the temperature of the bond before session.
Try itFour Horsemen tracker
Gottman-informed tracking of criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling — over time, in context.
Try itNegative cycle tracker
EFT-informed mapping of the cycle: trigger, reactive emotion, attachment longing, protest behavior — for both partners.
Try itConflict aftermath
A structured post-conflict reflection each partner completes privately. Ready for processing in session.
Try itPick a tool
Choose any tool from the library — or describe what you need and let the AI generate it. You review before anything reaches your client.
Send to their phone
One tap. They get a private link. No app, no signup, no password. The link IS the login.
Read it before session
Their responses land in your dashboard before next session. The between-session work becomes visible.
Quick answers.
Can both partners use the tools independently?+
Yes. Each partner has their own private link. You see both sets of responses side-by-side in your dashboard.
Does this fit Gottman, EFT, or PACT?+
Yes. The tools are modality-aware — Four Horsemen for Gottman, negative-cycle tracker for EFT, secure-functioning prompts for PACT. Bring your model; we give you the instruments.
Is what each partner shares private from the other?+
Yes. Responses route only to you. You decide what to bring into the joint session.
Free forever for your first client · no card required
Send your first tool in under 2 minutes.
Add a client (initials only — no PII), pick a tool from the library, send the link. Read what comes back before next session.
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