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Stimulus Control Worksheet

Retrain bed = sleep

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Stimulus control retrains the association: bed = sleep. Right now, for you, bed = scrolling, worry, waiting, trying. This is what breaks it.

The six rules
  • Bed is for sleep and sex only
  • Go to bed only when sleepy
  • If awake more than ~20 minutes, get out of bed and do something calm elsewhere
  • Return to bed only when sleepy again
  • Same wake time every day
  • No naps (unless prescribed)
What I'll do out of bed at 2am
Low-light, non-stimulating; not phone; something boring by design

No clock-watching

Turn the clock away. The math you do in the dark makes it worse. Just get up when you notice awake.

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