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Pre-Verbal Trauma Signs Checklist

What it looks like when there is no memory to work with

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Pre-verbal trauma is distress that occurred before a person had language to encode it — roughly before age two to three, including birth, medical procedures, prolonged separation, and sustained unmet need. Because it was never stored as narrative, it does not present as remembering. It presents as body state, reflex, and relational pattern. This checklist is for shared observation, not diagnosis: there is no test for pre-verbal trauma and no worksheet can establish that an event occurred.

Body and state

A baseline of bracing or watchfulness with no situation attached to it
Sudden shutdown, fogginess, or going far away under mild stress
Startle out of proportion to the sound or movement
Long recovery time after activation — hours or days, not minutes
Chronic gut, throat, jaw, or breathing patterns without medical cause
Trouble with hunger, temperature, sleep onset, or being touched unexpectedly

Relationship and contact

Distress at separations that objectively do not warrant it
Dread when needing something from another person
Going quiet or agreeable when overwhelmed, rather than asking
Difficulty being comforted — comfort itself feels uncomfortable
A sense of being fundamentally unwelcome that predates any evidence for it

Language and meaning

'I don't know why I'm like this' — feeling without a story
Reactions that feel much younger than current age
No memories at all from early childhood, alongside strong reactions to early-childhood settings
Words arriving late or not at all in the middle of a strong state

What this is not

Endorsed items indicate implicit, body-held distress worth working with somatically. They do not identify a cause, confirm an event, or rule out medical, neurodevelopmental, or current-stress explanations, which should be considered first.

What to do with what is ticked

One cue to track, and one thing that already settles the body

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About this worksheet

Pre-verbal trauma is distress that occurred before a person had language to encode it — roughly before age two to three, including birth, early medical procedures, prolonged separation from a caregiver, and sustained unmet need. Because it was never stored as narrative, it does not present as remembering; it presents as body state, reflex and relational pattern. This checklist gathers those presentations into three groups for shared observation with a client: body and state (a braced or flat baseline with no situation attached, disproportionate startle, long recovery times, chronic gut, jaw or breathing patterns, difficulty with hunger, temperature or unexpected touch); relationship and contact (distress at ordinary separations, dread when needing something, going quiet rather than asking, comfort itself feeling uncomfortable); and language and meaning (feeling without a story, reactions that feel much younger than current age, no early memories alongside strong reactions to early-childhood settings). It closes by converting whatever was ticked into one cue to track and one thing that already settles the body. It is explicitly not a diagnostic instrument — no checklist can establish that an early event occurred.

When to use it

Formulation with clients who have strong reactions and no early memories.
Psychoeducation before beginning body-first developmental trauma work.
When cognitive interventions keep stalling because there is no narrative to work on.
Do not use to establish that an early event occurred, and consider medical, neurodevelopmental and current-stress explanations first.

How to use it

1
Frame it before you start
Say plainly that ticked items indicate body-held distress worth working with, not proof of a cause.
2
Read the groups aloud together
Endorsement is often faster and more honest out loud than on paper alone.
3
Notice the body while ticking
If the checklist itself activates, stop and use a settling resource — that response is data.
4
Convert to two lines
One cue to track this week, one thing that already helps. Ticks without a next step change nothing.

Frequently asked questions

What does pre-verbal trauma look like in adults?+

Most often a braced or shut-down baseline with no situation attached, startle out of proportion to the cue, long recovery times, difficulty being comforted, dread when needing something from another person, and reactions that feel much younger than current age — usually with no early memories at all.

Is this a diagnostic test?+

No. There is no test for pre-verbal trauma. Endorsed items indicate implicit, body-held distress worth working with somatically; they do not identify a cause or rule anything out.

Can a client complete it alone?+

It is safer completed together. The items can activate the very states they describe, and that is worth having a clinician present for.

What comes next after the checklist?+

Cue mapping and state tracking — the Implicit Trigger Map and Body-State Timeline — then reparative repetition. Not memory work.

Is it free and printable?+

Yes. Free printable PDF, US Letter, no identifying information collected.

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Worksheet — Pre-Verbal Trauma Signs Checklist — provided by TherapistAssist for clinical use. Not a substitute for assessment or treatment.