ADHD · ADHD & Neurodiversity
ADHD Thought Record
A CBT thought record adapted for ADHD shame loops
A CBT thought record adapted for ADHD: most of the painful self-talk is shame about ADHD symptoms, not the symptoms themselves. This page targets the shame loop.
The triggering moment (concrete, one sentence)
The ADHD symptom involved (forgot, was late, missed, blurted, zoned out…)
The shame thought my brain offered
Catch the exact words (e.g. 'I'm a failure', 'Why can't I just…')
How much I believe it right now (0–100)
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Reality check
What this would mean if a friend with ADHD said it
What's actually true about my brain (not character)
A structural fix that would have prevented this
One self-compassionate sentence I can say instead
Belief in the shame thought now (0–100)
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ADHD is a brain, not a character
Forgetting, lateness, and distractibility are symptoms — not evidence of who you are. The fix is structural, not moral.