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Postpartum Intrusive Thoughts

Perinatal OCD is common, treatable, and NOT desire

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Postpartum intrusive thoughts about harm to baby are common (~50% of new parents) and are NOT desire. Perinatal OCD hijacks the protective brain circuit — the horror IS the disorder.

What perinatal OCD looks like
  • Egodystonic — thoughts feel opposite of who you are
  • Horror, not desire
  • Leads to AVOIDANCE (won't hold baby, won't bathe baby)
  • Not psychosis (which involves lost reality testing)
What my intrusive thoughts sound like
Avoidances I've built
Who I've told / plan to tell

Tell your clinician

Perinatal OCD responds beautifully to ERP. Not telling — out of shame or fear of CPS — is what keeps parents suffering. Trained perinatal clinicians know the difference between OCD and psychosis.

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