Core Beliefs
Name the deep rule under the recurring pattern
The downward arrow. Start with a surface thought, then ask — and if that were true, what would it mean about you? Keep going until you hit bedrock: the belief in one sentence.
If that were true, what would it mean about you?
If that were true, what would it mean about you?
If that were true, what would it mean about you?
If that were true, what would it mean about you?
If that were true, what would it mean about you?
A core belief is usually a short, absolute sentence — I am unlovable. I am not safe. I am defective. I don't matter. Naming it is half the work.